thewatchmaker: (He Started It)
"Stalking is a form of mental assault, in which the perpetrator repeatedly, unwantedly, and disruptively breaks into the life-world of the victim, with whom he has no relationship (or no longer has), with motives that are directly or indirectly traceable to the affective sphere. Moreover, the separated acts that make up the intrusion cannot by themselves cause the mental abuse, but do taken together (cumulative effect)." Technology ethics professor Lambèr Royakkers

[livejournal.com profile] shades_of_sylar deleted her Google Plus account or they did it for her. I'm not sure which, but that is one less place that I will ever have to deal with her obsessive need to be a part of my existence. I'm sure she'll make some other no name account to follow me, but whatever. I must admit that I lost my temper on Twitter Thursday night, and I had a little rant about the special snowflake nutcase there. I'm not proud of myself, but a person can only hold back for so long. I'm also Scot/Sicilian. I have a temper. I freely admit it, and she had it coming.

Her parting shot was to report my Google + profile where I was warned to change to a "common use" name. I've used the Watchmaker for 4 years, and one would think that's "common use" enough, but I gave in and changed my profile name. It's now Lee Gabriel, which is a pen name I'd picked out a few weeks ago. I like the name, and it's no big deal for me to have to use it there. It's still not my real name. They don't ask for "real name" just a "common use" name. So Lee Gabriel it is, and it's not for Sylar. It's for the angel Gabriel, who is the patron of writers and journalists.

For the stalker to have to give up her identity as Shades of Sylar somewhere is a great blow to her. That persona is all that she is. She has no world outside of her Twitter and Facebook, and although she has never managed to RP the character, she thinks she has. I was told that I should let this go, and that since she lives on the other side of the country she can't physically hurt me. Well mental anguish and stress count. I have high blood pressure. Was I supposed to let the stress cause a stroke? Would it have been a real threat then?

I'm counting her Google Plus removal as a victory, and I hope that she's finally going to leave me the fuck alone.

Speaking of Google Plus if you'd like to follow me I'm at gplus.to/thewatchmaker . If you need an invite, let me know in a comment.

Thanks for listening to me bitch, and thanks for you comments of support on this issue. I'm so glad that unlike some people, I have real friends.

Fron Wikipedia

More info and what was done to me. )
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thewatchmaker: (Crystal)
I would like to apologize to anyone in my friends list that gets followed by my stalker [livejournal.com profile] shades_of_sylar . This is her behavior after she's been rejected by me. On August 3, 2011, I told her to stop attempting to have any contact with me. Then not two weeks later she followed me with yet another new account that I identified as her in all of 3 minutes. A friend of mine who speaks with her was told it was an "olive branch". I consider it yet another example of a deranged mind.

In the past when I've told her to leave me alone, she has followed my friends on Twitter and Livejournal. She just started following my friends on Google Plus.

The nutcase lives in New Jersey. Hopefully the hurricane takes her out.

Luckily for us all there is a handy block function. If you would like details of her behavior, just ask me, and I'll show you my information.

EDIT - I have sent all the information and evidence I have on Mel aka [livejournal.com profile] shades_of_sylar to Google and Livejournal. Believe me after two years of this shit, I have a lot of it. She shouldn't be a problem on either service much longer.
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thewatchmaker: (DIAF - ELLE)
I am airing dirty laundry here, because it is the best way to show that I am not preying on [livejournal.com profile] shades_of_sylar. As you will see in this conversation, I told her to leave me alone, yet she felt the need to start following me again yesterday with another account. She is a cyber stalker, and I am done with keeping my mouth shut. From now on if she contacts me in anyway, I will publicly print her activities on my LJ and other places. I am done being the quiet victim while she gets away with making me miserable.

SCREEN CAPS

shades_of_sylar wrote:
I'll unfollow you on twitter for now. Let me know when we're friends again.
--- thewatchmaker wrote:
> You don't know how to see your profile? I can't talk to you right now. I am so creeped out that I have no words for it. But here's a timeline for you.
>
> thewatchmaker LJ 10/17/07
> thewatchmaker twitter 3/30/09
> Shadesofgray RP set up on LJ 7/20/09
>
> shades_of_sylar twitter 8/26/09
> shades_of_sylar LJ 10/17/09
> shades_of_play 10/17/09
>
> I'd brush it off as an accident if your names weren't so similar to my RP's name, and you weren't using my graphics on your Twitter back then. I'm sure you remember that.
>
> This might be something that happened 2 years ago, but I have been living in fear of you for those two years because of your behavior.
>
> I'm sure that's not what you wanted. You wanted me to like you. Instead you've made me afraid of you. Thinking about you makes me shake and cry. You have bullied me to the point where I can't even function.
>
> This will be my last conversation with you EVER, and I mean that. Please feel free to rant about me or unfollow me on Twitter. I don't care anymore. I just want you to leave me alone and stop doing things that scare me.
>
> Lee
> --- shades_of_sylar wrote:
> > I can't even find your profile. I tried by doing a search, but it won't search.
> >
> > --- thewatchmaker wrote:
> > > It's on the profile.
> > >
> > > --- shades_of_sylar wrote:
> > > > How can you tell when someone started their LJ? I don't even remember when I started mine... and I have no idea when anyone else started theirs.
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thewatchmaker: (JD - fuck off)
So after telling my Stalker August 3rd that I wanted no contact with her anymore, because she scares the fuck out of me, she made a new account today on Twitter. This account is @garyisanalpha, and she decided to follow me right after following all of her accounts. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that it was her once again attempting to interact with me. I then went to her main Twitter, and I saw her mentioning Gary's account. Now I'm not stupid it took me all of 5 minutes to find out that Gary is @shades_of_sylar. It took me less time to block her.

Now what I want to know is:

IF YOU'RE NOT STALKING ME, WHY THE FUCK DO YOU KEEP CREATING NEW ACCOUNTS TO FOLLOW ME?

I'm not following you. I want nothing to do with you. Get a fucking life, and leave me the hell alone.

I'm unfriend's locking the August 3rd entry about this person. I think everyone who is a friend of mine has a right to know who this stupid cunt is, so you can avoid her too.
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thewatchmaker: (Fuck Off)
Today I cut the last string that my stalker had on me. I'd been nice to the stalker for a very long time for a few reasons none of which were that I liked her or wanted to be her friend.
Read more... )
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thewatchmaker: (Mocking)
A Stalker knows where you are because they want to be around you. It's not stalking to see where you are to AVOID you. DUMB ASS

What is a Stalker - from the Urban Dictionary

A creepy guy who knows what you're doing at all times and when he doesn't he's trying to know. Someone who harasses, annoys, provokes because of self contempt and jealousy. Is known for doing anything to get a reaction. Will go to any length because hes so f'in sad and has no life whatsoever. Bruised ego loser.

Someone that is obsessed with a person. Watching and noticing every part and piece on your body. A person that craves attention so they stalk you because they want the same attention. A person with great interest and finds everything about you remarkable yet have no idea who you are.

One who exhibits a sick unhealthy insane obsession with an ex friend who rejected him. This obsession can lead to various results. Such as following, bugging, writing definitions on Urban Dictionary, calling and getting me to try to harass other people. When friend's feeling by said girl is not returned nutter in question starts exhibiting dangerous psychotic behaviors that can last for years.
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thewatchmaker: (Default)
This is the information that [livejournal.com profile] graylikeme and other friends gathered
this morning. I have sent all of this to twitter.

August 2011 ISP 108.111.145.222

70.4.118.34

70-4-118-34.pools.spcsdns.net

http://twitter.com/Melissa_L_Gero
creative.writer27@gmail.com
http://www.myspace.com/creativewriter27
http://www.facebook.com/people/Melissa-Gero/583938201#/creative.writer27?hiq=melissa%2Cgero&ref=search
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=4494659
http://www.youtube.com/user/CreativeMelissa

http://twitter.com/Melissa_L_Gero
http://twitter.com/shades_of_sylar
http://twitter.com/sexy_sylar
http://twitter.com/sylar_theripper
http://twitter.com/tick_tock_sylar
http://twitter.com/Unique_Monique_
http://twitter.oom/aliceshaw26
http://twitter.com/shades_of_play
http://twitter.com/shadesofsylar
http://twitter.com/shades_of_fun
http://twitter.com/shadesofserious


creative.writer27@gmail.com
http://www.myspace.com/creativewriter27
http://www.facebook.com/people/Melissa-Gero/583938201#/creative.writer27?hiq=melissa%2Cgero&ref=search
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=4494659

70.4.118.34 - Whois Information

OrgName: Sprint PCS
OrgID: SPCS
Address: 6391 Sprint Parkway
City: Overland Park
StateProv: KS
PostalCode: 66251-4300
Country: US

NetRange: 70.0.0.0 - 70.14.255.255
CIDR: 70.0.0.0/13, 70.8.0.0/14, 70.12.0.0/15, 70.14.0.0/16
NetName: SPRINT-WIRELESS
NetHandle: NET-70-0-0-0-1
Parent: NET-70-0-0-0-0
NetType: Direct Allocation
NameServer: OSSCDNS01.SPCSDNS.NET
NameServer: OSSCDNS02.SPCSDNS.NET
Comment:
RegDate: 2004-03-25
Updated: 2006-08-15

RTechHandle: DRW52-ARIN
RTechName: Williams, David R
RTechPhone: +1-913-315-4685
RTechEmail: david.r.williams@sprint.com

OrgAbuseHandle: SPAT-ARIN
OrgAbuseName: Sprint PCS Abuse Team
OrgAbusePhone: +1-888-211-4727
OrgAbuseEmail: abuse@sprintpcs.com

OrgNOCHandle: WEG-ARIN
OrgNOCName: George, Wesley Edward
OrgNOCPhone: +1-800-232-6895
OrgNOCEmail: wesley.e.george@sprint.com

OrgTechHandle: SPAT-ARIN
OrgTechName: Sprint PCS Abuse Team
OrgTechPhone: +1-888-211-4727
OrgTechEmail: abuse@sprintpcs.com

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